Monday, December 10, 2007

Marriage is good for life

Those days there are many single, divorced people. There are also many married couples. These people all live everyday, seeking happiness. According to a study, married people have more happiness than single people have. Marriages essentially have the role which gives happiness to people. Then, should people all get married to be happy? The answer to this question is “yes”. When people get married, people can avoid several stresses of life, make closer relationship, and woman can also get happiness by becoming a wife.
The first reason that marriage is good for life is because it avoiding several stresses. Everyone live during everyday, having several stresses. For example, there are human relationships with family or friends, financial problems, health problems, and so on. If you are a married, you may tell a partner many things which you came across that day. You can talk with the partner anytime. You and the partner help each other because of owns spouse. The partner is your advisor. You can reduce stress unconsciously. And you are also the partner’s advisor. But if you are a single, you can not talk several happenings which you came across that day to someone anytime. So, you keep your feeling in your mind. Therefore you are under a lot of stress. In consequence, married people have stresses less than single people have.
The second reason is that marriage builds close relationships. A partner is the closest person for a couple. Couple can share whatever everything with a partner. And couple experience many same things together such as hard things, unhappy things, sad, or interesting things. So, through the partner, couple can be relieved each other. And their relationship is growing more and more. Besides marriage also makes couple broaden human relations and many close persons. Therefore, married people do not feel alone and they are content. That is why married people’s minds are steady and they can live happily.
Finally, in addition to these results, being a wife lets women happy. Women do not like alone, but actually women sometimes want to be alone too. So, when her husbands go to work, wives feel small happiness. Wives do several things which wives can do freely. Wives go out and communicate with many people except the husband while her husbands are working. And wives sometimes talk something to a person which wives can not talk to the husband about. So, for wives, this time is very importance. Wives need free time for a short time. Through this, wives feel contentment.
Single persons start to feel happier with their life when they are in the 50s and 60s. Single persons can do anything they want to do for themselves. However, single people keep feeling alone until then. Single people have to think about everything and get enough money by themselves, and endure loneliness. Single people do not have partners, and their human relations are very narrow unlike that of married people. So, single people sometime feel alone and do not have happiness as much as married people have. Consequently, married people are happier than single people are.
In conclusion, married people get more happiness than single people get. This is because married people have a partner so they can talk about anything to the partner anytime. And married people can make build closer relationships, so they do not feel alone but feel content instead. Moreover, through marriage, women feel pleasure. Single people have to do everything alone. Therefore, they have a bigger burden than married people have. That is why people should get married and should not be single forever. Marriage is a state which enriches a person’s life.

References

Hale, B. (February 13, 2006). Yes, marriage does make you happy (but after a year it’s all downhill). Daily Mail (London). Retrieved November 18, 2007, from lexis nexis datebase.
D. (July 1, 2007). Key to a good Marriage? Share Housework. Press Online. Retrieved November 18, 2007, from lexis nexis datebase.